{"id":11581,"date":"2025-11-18T12:13:02","date_gmt":"2025-11-18T10:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/andreeahalikias.ro\/?p=11581"},"modified":"2025-11-30T01:49:08","modified_gmt":"2025-11-29T23:49:08","slug":"de-ce-plangi-citind-aceasta-carte-si-de-ce-am-plans-si-eu-cand-am-scris-o","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/andreeahalikias.ro\/en\/de-ce-plangi-citind-aceasta-carte-si-de-ce-am-plans-si-eu-cand-am-scris-o\/","title":{"rendered":"Why you cry reading this book (and why I cried when I wrote it)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 primesc primele reac\u021bii la<a href=\"https:\/\/a.co\/d\/hPojcVl\">&nbsp;<em>The Anatomy of Creative Blocks<\/em><\/a>. Unii dintre voi mi-a\u021bi scris c\u0103 a\u021bi pl\u00e2ns. Unii mi-a\u021bi spus c\u0103 Nota Autorului v-a lovit direct \u00een inim\u0103. Unii mi-a\u021bi spus c\u0103 v-a\u021bi sim\u021bit v\u0103zu\u021bi \u2014 poate pentru prima oar\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"710\" height=\"262\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=710%2C262&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-11582\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=1024%2C378&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=300%2C111&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=768%2C284&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=1489%2C550&amp;ssl=1 1489w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=1060%2C391&amp;ssl=1 1060w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=1536%2C567&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=2048%2C756&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=550%2C203&amp;ssl=1 550w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=1354%2C500&amp;ssl=1 1354w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=1920%2C709&amp;ssl=1 1920w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=600%2C222&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?resize=135%2C50&amp;ssl=1 135w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?w=1420&amp;ssl=1 1420w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/andreeahalikias.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Screenshot-2025-11-18-at-08.36.28.png?w=2130&amp;ssl=1 2130w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Adev\u0103rul e acesta: <strong>motivul pentru care pl\u00e2ngi\u2026 este c\u0103 am pl\u00e2ns \u0219i eu.<\/strong> Cartea asta nu a fost scris\u0103 dintr-un turn de filde\u0219 sau dintr-o perioad\u0103 zen a vie\u021bii mele. A fost scris\u0103 din propriile mele blocaje \u2014 lungi, dureroase, t\u0103cute. Din acei ani \u00een care m-am sim\u021bit nev\u0103zut\u0103 \u0219i neauzit\u0103, nu pentru c\u0103 ceilal\u021bi nu m\u0103 percepeau\u2026 ci pentru c\u0103&nbsp;<strong>eu nu m\u0103 vedeam, nu m\u0103 auzeam \u0219i nu eram eu \u00eens\u0103mi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Scrierea acestei c\u0103r\u021bi nu a fost un exerci\u021biu intelectual. A fost o autopsie. O resurec\u021bie. O reamintire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br><strong>Creativitatea nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 doar art\u0103. Creativitatea \u00eenseamn\u0103 via\u021b\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mult\u0103 lume m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eDeci cartea e despre scris? Despre creatori de con\u021binut? Despre arti\u0219ti?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu. Este despre&nbsp;<strong>oameni<\/strong>. Creativitatea nu este ceva ce faci cu pixul, cu laptopul sau cu camera. Creativitatea este&nbsp;<strong>for\u021ba ta vital\u0103<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2014 energia care \u00ee\u021bi mi\u0219c\u0103 deciziile, alegerile, curajul, identitatea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi blochezi creativitatea, \u00ee\u021bi blochezi via\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i apoi ne \u00eentreb\u0103m de ce ne sim\u021bim:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>epuiza\u021bi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>anxio\u0219i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>bolnavi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>nemotiva\u021bi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>nev\u0103zu\u021bi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>neauzi\u021bi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>nevalida\u021bi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>deconecta\u021bi de noi \u00een\u0219ine<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu pentru c\u0103 suntem \u201edefec\u021bi\u201d. Ci pentru c\u0103 suntem&nbsp;<strong>congestiona\u021bi<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2014 emo\u021bional, energetic, creativ, spiritual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/a.co\/d\/hPojcVl\"><em>The Anatomy of Creative Blocks<\/em>&nbsp;<\/a>nu doar explic\u0103 \u201ede ce\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ci \u0219i&nbsp;<strong>ce po\u021bi face<\/strong>&nbsp;atunci c\u00e2nd totul pare blocat. \u00cen corp. \u00cen sistemul nervos. \u00cen adev\u0103rul t\u0103u. \u00cen via\u021ba ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u201eE\u0219ti tu \u00een carte?\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Cineva m-a \u00eentrebat asta cu c\u00e2teva zile \u00een urm\u0103. Cu jum\u0103tate de z\u00e2mbet \u0219i jum\u0103tate de seriozitate:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e\u0218tiu c\u0103 ai trecut prin multe\u2026 dar chiar e\u0219ti TU \u00een paginile astea?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da. Sunt eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probabil singurul motiv pentru care am putut s\u0103 o scriu. Dac\u0103 n-a\u0219 fi avut acest obicei&nbsp;<em>foarte<\/em>&nbsp;enervant de a analiza totul \u00een cele mai mici detalii, probabil c\u0103 a\u0219 fi spus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eA fost greu\u2026 am supravie\u021buit.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i m-a\u0219 fi oprit aici. Dar nu scrii 200 de pagini despre ceva ce nu ai tr\u0103it, studiat, procesat \u0219i transformat \u00een medicin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u0218i tot acest val creativ\u2026 a \u00eenceput \u00een septembrie \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, dou\u0103 luni. E at\u00e2t de neo-\u00eenceput \u00eenc\u00e2t \u00eenc\u0103 m\u0103 minunez \u0219i eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen aceste dou\u0103 luni:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>am lansat&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/a.co\/d\/hPojcVl\">Anatomia Blocajelor Creative<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>lucrez la&nbsp;<strong>Speed Selling 3.0 \u2014 How to Grow Your Business Without Losing Your Soul<\/strong> pentru c\u0103 are deja 10 ani aceast\u0103 carte \u0219i de\u0219i a fost bestseller la vremea ei, avea nevoie de un upgrade \ud83d\ude42 <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>am terminat romanul\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/a.co\/d\/3IbN7wM\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/a.co\/d\/3IbN7wM\">The Weight of Peace<\/a><\/strong> &#8211; o s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac\u0103 mult dac\u0103 nu te-ai l\u0103murit cum te iube\u0219te de fapt Dumnezeu.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>dezvolt seria politico-romantic\u0103&nbsp;<strong>Backchannel Files<\/strong>&nbsp;(nici nu am vorbit despre aceast\u0103 serie \u00eenc\u0103 a\u0219a c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun acum c\u0103 are la baz\u0103 lucrarea mea de absolvire a Institutului Diplomatic Rom\u00e2n &#8211; <em>Kosovo \u0219i Ruptura Transatlantic\u0103<\/em>. Mai multe &#8230; c\u00e2nd \u00eei va veni r\u00e2ndul)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0219i, bine\u00een\u021beles, continui seria dark romance ca&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/stores\/Ellen-Bellmare\/author\/B0FSXNZ74L?ref=ap_rdr&amp;isDramIntegrated=true&amp;shoppingPortalEnabled=true&amp;ccs_id=a55b0767-dfdf-4763-a5c5-952845de0680\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ellen Bellmare<\/a><\/strong> &#8211; unde redefinesc genul cum spun cei de la <a href=\"https:\/\/www.digitaljournal.com\/pr\/news\/revupmarketer\/ellen-bellmare-smart-voice-1529611514.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Digital Journal <\/a>despre mine \ud83d\ude42 Genul romance a reflectat mereu societatea. Dark romance-ul doar stinge pu\u021bin luminile, ca s\u0103 po\u021bi vedea ceea ce, de obicei, se ascunde \u00een umbre.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Toate sunt \u00een diferite etape. \u0218i vor veni pe r\u00e2nd, sau toate o dat\u0103 \ud83d\ude42 pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce le termin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u0218tiu c\u0103 nu sunt pentru toat\u0103 lumea.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt &#8222;greu de definit&#8221; s\u0103 spunem \u00een termenii permi\u0219i de un text care apare pe internet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii noi uneori au nevoie de timp s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i dea seama cum poate o singur\u0103 femeie s\u0103 con\u021bin\u0103 at\u00e2tea lumi simultan: business, spiritualitate, fic\u021biune \u00eentunecat\u0103, geopolitic\u0103, creativitate, antreprenoriat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar fii atent(\u0103): <strong>\u0219i tu e\u0219ti la fel.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu e\u0219ti o singur\u0103 poveste. Nu e\u0219ti o singur\u0103 identitate. Nu e\u0219ti \u201edoar asta\u201d sau \u201edoar cealalt\u0103\u201d. E\u0219ti un Univers. Doar pentru c\u0103 Instagram \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 180 de caractere \u00een bio nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 te faci at\u00e2t de mic \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eencapi acolo. Tu e\u0219ti un Univers care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 o u\u0219\u0103 prin care s\u0103 se exprime. \u0218i c\u00e2nd acea u\u0219\u0103 se blocheaz\u0103, doare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Las\u0103 s\u0103 ias\u0103<\/strong>!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tot ce e blocat \u00een tine \u2014 las\u0103 s\u0103 ias\u0103. Cartea asta te va ajuta. Nu pentru c\u0103 eu sunt special\u0103, ci pentru c\u0103&nbsp;<strong>TU e\u0219ti<\/strong>. Pentru c\u0103 vocea ta creativ\u0103 te caut\u0103 de ani. Pentru c\u0103 for\u021ba ta vital\u0103 vrea s\u0103 se mi\u0219te. Pentru c\u0103 adev\u0103rul vrea s\u0103 se exprime, nu s\u0103 fie am\u00e2nat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i dac\u0103 cite\u0219ti \u0219i fic\u021biune?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i romanele mele te ajut\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 personajele mele\u2026 sunt \u0219i ele blocate. Sunt \u0219i ele speriate. \u0218i ele caut\u0103 \u00eencrederea \u00een afara lor. \u0218i ele sunt aproape de moarte sau aproape de adev\u0103r. \u0218i te vei vedea \u00een ele la fel cum te vezi \u00een tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Curajul nu e o stare. <strong>Este o decizie.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Dac\u0103 ai pl\u00e2ns citind cartea, e pentru c\u0103 ceva din tine s-a recunoscut.<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu e sl\u0103biciune. Se nume\u0219te TREZIRE. \u0218i pentru asta am scris cartea. \u0218i probabil \u0219i de asta este <a href=\"https:\/\/a.co\/d\/74VbzIi\">#1 New Release pe Amazon<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014&nbsp;<strong><em>Andreea<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am \u00eenceput s\u0103 primesc primele reac\u021bii la&nbsp;The Anatomy of Creative Blocks. Unii dintre voi mi-a\u021bi scris c\u0103 a\u021bi pl\u00e2ns. Unii mi-a\u021bi spus c\u0103 Nota Autorului v-a lovit direct \u00een inim\u0103. Unii mi-a\u021bi spus c\u0103 v-a\u021bi sim\u021bit v\u0103zu\u021bi \u2014 poate pentru prima oar\u0103. Adev\u0103rul e acesta: motivul pentru care pl\u00e2ngi\u2026 este c\u0103 am pl\u00e2ns \u0219i eu. 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